Relationship Expert Reveals How to Identify and Attract a Mature, Successful and God-Fearing Man Who Is Ready to Settle Down
Dear reader,
If you are a good woman — hardworking, God-fearing, serious about settling down — and you are still single, still waiting, still watching other women get chosen while you wonder what is wrong with you…
This page was written for you.
Not because something is wrong with you.
Because you have been doing things the hard way. Without a map. Without a system. Without knowing the exact things that make a mature, successful, God-fearing man stop, look at a woman and say — she is the one I want to settle down with.
You have prayed. You have fasted. You have been patient. You have tried to be the best version of yourself.
And yet — the serious men are not coming. Or they come and disappear. Or they stay but never commit.
I know this pain. Not because I read about it. Because I lived it for years.
My name is Mikky Olayinka.
I am a lifestyle and relationship coach. But before I became the coach, I was the confused woman who could not figure out why she kept attracting the wrong kind of men — or the right kind of men who never stayed long enough to build anything real.
I finished school. I got a good job. I was building my life. I was doing everything right.
But the pressure never stopped.
"Mikky, when are you settling down?" "Mikky, you are not getting younger." "Mikky, what is happening — all your mates are getting married."
The question that haunted me most was not from my family. It was from inside my own heart every single morning.
Am I going to spend the rest of my life like this?
I dated men who were charming but not serious. I dated men who said all the right things and disappeared. I stayed in one relationship for almost three years, giving everything — my time, my prayers, my energy — only to discover that he had never truly decided if he wanted to build a future with me.
That ending broke something in me.
I went to seminars. I read books. I tried the advice. Nothing gave me a clear, practical system for what I was actually doing wrong — and what the women who were attracting serious, committed, God-fearing men were doing differently.
Then something happened that changed everything.
The Conversation That Opened My Eyes
I was attending a women's conference in Lagos organized by a church. It was the kind of event where you expect to hear the usual — pray harder, wait on God, love yourself first.
All of that is true. But I had been doing all of it. And I was still single.
In this particular conference, the church had invited some relationship experts who also came up to speak and give their advice. One of the speakers, a well-dressed confident lady in her early forties called Eleanor Richards from Canada, came up and said something quite different from the usual. She expertly explained why a lot of women attract and end up getting involved with the wrong kind of men.
At the end of the conference, I googled her, found her website and read about her. The conference organizers had provided the opportunity to book a consulting session with any of the experts. I booked a one-hour session with Eleanor for the next day which cost me $100. That was a lot of money, and I weighed it in my mind for a long time, but at this stage I was desperately looking for answers and a pathway to ending my travail.
She explained to me that the reason she charged so much was because she wanted to put the system she teaches beyond what "loose ladies" — the ones we call "runs girls" in Nigeria — would be willing to pay, so that it would be available only to more serious ladies who would value the information she was providing and with whom she could develop meaningful client relationships.
When we met, we got talking. Eleanor had been married for over twelve years to a man she described as mature, successful, God-fearing, and still deeply in love with her.
We spoke for an hour. I told her everything. The failed relationships. The good men who disappeared. The feeling that I was doing everything right and getting nowhere.
She listened. Then she said something that completely reordered everything I thought I knew.
"Mikky. The problem is not that serious men are not finding you. The problem is that you do not yet know how to position yourself so that the right kind of man can see you — and how to show up in a way that makes him choose you and stay."
She was not being unkind. She was being exact.
She told me that attracting a mature, God-fearing, successful man who wants to settle down is not about luck. It is not only about prayer — though prayer matters deeply. It is about knowing specific things. Where these men are. How they think. What draws them in. What makes them serious. What makes them run.
And most women, she said, are never taught any of it.
Here is the truth nobody told you:
Serious, mature, God-fearing men who are ready to settle down are not looking for the most beautiful woman in the room. They are not chasing the most educated woman. They are not waiting for the woman who has waited the longest or prayed the hardest.
They are drawn to a specific kind of woman. A woman who carries herself a certain way. Who knows how to show up. Who makes a man feel something that casual, uncommitted women do not make him feel.
That is a learnable skill. Not manipulation. Not games. A set of real, practical things you can know, apply, and use — starting today.
And that is exactly what Dating for Marriage: The Dating Investment Ladder™ teaches you.
I spent the next several months building a complete framework from everything she shared with me, everything I had learned from my own experience, and everything I had seen work — and not work — across years of coaching women through their relationships.
I tested it. I refined it. I taught it to women I was working with.
The results told me it was ready to be shared more widely.
Here Is What Changed When I Applied This
The first thing I did was stop doing what most single women do — going to the same places, showing up the same way, hoping a different result would come.
I learned where serious, God-fearing, successful men actually spend their time. Not where women assume they are. Where they actually are.
I changed how I carried myself in those spaces. Not in a fake or performative way. In a way that communicated clearly: I am a woman of value, I know what I want, and I am not available for anything less than something real.
I learned the specific things that make a mature man stop treating a woman like a good time and start treating her like a life partner.
Within weeks, the quality of men who were approaching me had completely changed.
Within months, I was in the most intentional, honest, God-centred relationship of my life — with a man who was ready, serious, and clear about what he wanted to build.
"I did not get lucky. I got equipped. And everything in this guide is what equipped me."
When I Started Sharing This With Other Women
I began teaching this framework to the women I coach. One after another, I watched the same pattern.
Women who had been single and confused for years became clear and intentional within weeks. Women who had been attracting the wrong kind of men started showing up differently — and started attracting differently.
Same framework. Same results. Women all over Nigeria.
Why I Am Making This Available to You
For a long time, this framework only existed inside my coaching sessions. Women who worked with me one-on-one got access to it. And the results were consistent.
But I know that not every woman who needs this can afford private coaching. Not every woman who is sitting in confusion right now — wondering why serious men are not coming, or not staying — has access to a coach who will sit down and walk her through this.
So I documented everything. Every principle. Every practical tool. Every step. Into one complete guide that any woman can access and apply — starting tonight.
Everything I know — from my personal experience, my coaching practice, and years of watching what actually works — documented in plain language so you can start applying it tonight.
This is NOT for you if:
- You are not serious about settling down and just want attention from men
- You believe a man will find you without you doing anything different
- You think prayer alone is enough and there is nothing practical to learn
- You are not ready to be honest with yourself about what is not working
Inside the guide, you will discover:
- The exact places where serious, God-fearing, successful men spend their time — and why 90% of single women are never in those spaces
- The one subtle sign you can display that makes a high-value man approach you — without you chasing him or making the first move
- Why some women get proposed to quickly while others wait for years — it has nothing to do with beauty or education
- The #1 mistake that quietly signals to a serious man that you are not wife material — and how to stop making it immediately
- How to get a man's full attention within the first few minutes of meeting him — so he remembers you long after you have gone
- The three questions that make any serious man open up and show you exactly what he is looking for — without him even realising it
- How to carry yourself in any room so that the right men notice you and the wrong ones leave you alone
- The real reason good men disappear after showing serious interest — and the simple shift that stops this from happening to you
- How to become the kind of woman a God-fearing, successful man prays for — without losing your personality or pretending to be someone you are not
- The fastest way to know if a man is genuinely interested in settling down — or just enjoying your attention with no intention of committing
- How to make a man miss you and think about you constantly — even when you are not with him
- The secret to making him feel that choosing you is the best decision he will ever make — so he never looks elsewhere
No special materials needed. No expensive courses. Everything you need is in this guide, and you can start applying it from your bedroom tonight.
Compare That to What You Have Already Been Spending
How Much Does This Guide Cost?
A fair price for what is inside this guide would be ₦15,000. Easily.
But I want this to reach every serious woman in Nigeria who needs it — not just the women who can afford premium coaching.
So if you take action today —
Once You Click That Button, Here Is What Happens
- You are taken to a secure payment page.
- You complete your payment quickly and safely — card, bank transfer or USSD.
- The guide and both bonuses are sent directly to your WhatsApp and your email within 60–90 seconds. No waiting. No back and forth.
It is me, Mikky. As long as your payment is confirmed, your access is 100% guaranteed. I do not play with people's money or their time.
What Women Are Saying After Reading the Guide
Real conversations. Real women. Real results.
WAIT — I Have Something Special For You…
If you are one of the first 75 women to act today, you also receive both of these powerful bonus guides — completely free.
Know exactly what to say — and how to say it — at every stage of getting to know a serious man. The questions that reveal his true intentions without making you look desperate. The conversations that separate men who are serious from men who are just passing time. Every script you need, in plain language, ready to use.
Stop wasting months on men who were never going to commit. This bonus gives you a clear, honest breakdown of the exact behaviours that signal a man is serious — and the ones that signal he is wasting your time. No more convincing yourself that a red flag is something else. Know the difference. Act accordingly.
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Right Now, You Have Two Choices
If You Do Nothing
- You keep going to the wrong places and meeting the wrong men
- Serious, God-fearing men keep passing without stopping
- You wake up next year still asking the same question
- The pressure from family gets heavier, not lighter
- You wonder why this keeps happening to you
If You Get the Guide
- You know exactly where to find serious, God-fearing men
- You know how to show up so the right man notices you
- You stop wasting time on men who were never going to commit
- You date with confidence, intention and clarity
- You give your prayers the strategy they deserve
One Last Thing…
Picture yourself one month from today.
Will you finally be in the right places — where serious, God-fearing, successful men actually are?
Will you know exactly how to carry yourself so that the right man notices you and the wrong ones leave you alone?
Will you be having real conversations with a man who is serious — not wasting your time with someone who cannot tell you where things are going?
Will you look at the woman you were a month ago — confused, in the wrong places, doing the same things — and feel quietly, genuinely proud of the decision you made tonight?
Now picture yourself one month from today if you close this page.
The same places. The same results. The same question you cannot answer. The same pressure that never stops.
The difference between those two women is a decision you make in the next sixty seconds.
I Am Ready — Give Me the GuideIf you have read this far and you are still hesitating —
Ask yourself this honestly.
What exactly are you waiting for?
₦7,500 is less than a new dress. Less than a night out. Less than the data you have used this week.
You have spent years investing in men who were not serious. You gave your time, your energy, your prayers, your tears — freely — to men who did not deserve it.
And you are hesitating to invest ₦7,500 in yourself?
You have cried enough. You have waited enough. You have prayed enough.
Now add knowledge to your faith. Get the guide. Apply it. And go get what God has for you.
Stop hesitating. Choose yourself.
Yes — I Choose Myself. Give Me the Guide.P.S. The ₦7,500 price is only for the first 75 women today. After that it goes back to ₦15,000 and both bonuses are removed. If you are reading this, the offer is still open. Do not let it close on you.
P.P.S. Every day you wait is another day you are in the wrong places, showing up the wrong way, missing the man God has for you. The guide is ready. You just have to get it.
P.P.P.S. N7,500 is nothing compared to your happiness. You have cried enough. Get the guide tonight.
Mikky Olayinka
Lifestyle & Relationship Coach · The Real Woman Blog
Frequently Asked Questions
How is the guide delivered after payment?
The moment your payment is confirmed, you will be directed to a page where you can download the full guide plus both bonuses. No waiting, no following up. You can start reading tonight.
Does this work for women over 35?
Absolutely. The women I coach who are over 35 often see results faster because they are more serious and apply the framework with more commitment. Age is not the barrier. Not knowing where to go and how to show up is the barrier. This guide removes that barrier completely.
I am shy. Will this still work for me?
Yes. The guide does not require you to become loud or extroverted. It teaches you how to attract serious men through presence, positioning and specific practical steps — many of which are perfectly suited for quiet, reserved women. In fact, some of the most powerful attraction principles in the guide are things that introverted women do naturally once they know about them.
What if I have been single for a long time and I am losing hope?
This guide was written specifically for women in that position. The length of time you have been single is not the problem — it is the absence of the right strategy. Once you have the strategy and apply it honestly, things can change faster than you expect. The testimonials in this page are from real women, many of whom had been single for years before applying the framework.
Is this just for Christians or does it work for Muslim women too?
The framework works for any serious woman of faith. The principles apply across faiths because they are based on how mature, God-fearing men — whether Christian or Muslim — think, what they look for, and where they spend their time. Several women in this page who gave testimonials are Muslim.
How is this different from every other relationship book I have bought?
Most relationship books give you general advice about self-love and standards. This guide gives you specific, practical information — where serious men actually are, what draws them in, what makes them commit, and what makes them leave. It is not theory. It is a system. And systems produce consistent results in a way that inspiration alone never does.
This page is for educational and informational purposes only. Individual results will vary. This is not a guarantee of any specific outcome.
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